5 Weight Loss Strategies That Just Don’t Work – Video with Emily Rosen

With so many diet plans out there, it can be hard to separate the truly helpful advice from the fluff. If you’re contemplating making a change in your eating style, you may be reading up on a variety of methods that promise to help you lose weight and feel better. But how can you decide which approach is right for you? In this fascinating new video from IPEtv!, Emily Rosen, Director of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, helps narrow the field by breaking down 5 weight loss strategies that simply don’t work – and may even take you farther away from your goals. And once these have been ruled out, Emily offers some timeless wisdom to help you tell which nutritional approaches can have real potential!

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Here is a transcript of this week’s video:

Have you tried different ways to lose weight, only to gain it right back? Or have you ever dieted only to see your efforts wasted with little to no weight loss whatsoever? Or perhaps you’ve lost weight, but live in constant fear that it may come back?

As obvious as it sounds, many people don’t realize that just because something is called a diet, doesn’t mean it can have any chance of working. Weight loss strategies that deliver real and lasting results are very elusive for most people. So in the interest of saving you time and your valuable life energy, let’s look at 5 weight loss strategies you can cross off your list that simply don’t deliver:

#1 – Fasting for Weight Loss

Fasting is a great temporary strategy if the intention is truly to cleanse and detoxify your body. It can give digestive organs a break so our body can then eliminate old, stored up toxins. This timeless nutrition strategy can really reboot someone’s health if they don’t have an eating disorder or other health contraindications.

However for many people, fasting to just lose weight tends to backfire. We may lose water weight, or even some muscle or fat weight, but then a starvation mechanism kicks in and we gain back what we lost, plus some. For most people, fasting is simply not a sustainable weight loss method. Tricking the body into weight loss never really works long-term.

A slow, steady weight loss is often what works best for the long-term. That means finding a way of eating that can nourish us on a daily basis. When we eat sustainably, creating daily habits that support overall health, we train our body to handle foods in the right proportions for our bio-individuality.

#2 – Very Low Calorie Diets

Many people believe that, if they want to lose weight, they just need to decrease their caloric intake. We believe this because that’s what we’ve all been taught. However, the body is not a pure input/output calorie burning machine. It’s way more complex, intertwined with psyche, soul, heart, and spirit.

Low-calorie diets paradoxically cause the body to go into starvation mode,which then signals our physiology to hang onto body weight because the body thinks it needs to survive. Think of the body like a wood-burning furnace needing a steady supply of fuel. When we get to a few pieces of kindling, our fire doesn’t burn as bright. Our metabolism slows. A low calorie diet sets us up to feel hungry. Then we can overeat or binge-eat in reaction to feeling starved, not knowing when the next meal is coming. It’s best to eat a steady stream of nutritious foods to achieve our natural weight.

#3 – Intense Exercise

Whereas movement and exercise is a healthy thing for most nourished bodies, INTENSE exercise is not sustainable for many people. Moderate to light movement can encourage a sense of playfulness and joy. Intense exercise, on the other hand, can create a stress response that signals the body to hang on to weight. Intense exercise can backfire once we stop, creating a sense of fear of rest, and leading to a more compulsive and imbalance relationship with exercise. The bottom line is that over-exercise is a well documented phenomenon that can give us the opposite result we’re looking for.

If you feel like you’re forcing or dragging your body through exercise, chances are it may be too intense for your body. Try backing off, or simply experiment with movement that comes from a place of enjoyment. When we do exercise that we truly love, metabolic magic can happen.

#4 – Diet Pills

There has never ever been ANY diet pill or prescription drug that is effective for weight loss. The drug and supplement pushers love to sell weight loss pills, but their effectiveness is woefully inadequate in the short and the long run.This strategy almost always falls flat. It’s a nice dream to think that taking a pill will make problems go away, but it’s not a reality. What is a reality is that moderation with food and exercise and developing a loving relationship with our body puts us in the best position for finding our natural weight. Give your body the rest, nourishment, sleep, love, affection, passion and purpose it requires, and it will be easier to truly get where you want to go.

#5 – Hating Your Body

Hating the body into weight loss is a dead-end strategy. The body reacts like a small child. Imagine telling a 5-year-old that they’re “too fat and ugly and need to lose weight.” Besides crushing that poor toddler’s soul, the reaction would be for that child to feel shame and think, “there’s something wrong with me.” When we think there’s something wrong with us, we tend to act out in ways that prove this belief true.

Self-loathing is a poor way to motivate or inspire ourselves. Instead of shaming or blaming yourself, try kindness. Instead of harming yourself with unkind words about who you are and how you look, take a breath and affirm your self worth. Call a cease fire on self attack. Choose to treat yourself with respect and acceptance. You’re worthy of love, just like everyone else.” Being loving towards your body even though it’s not up to your standards of what’s perfect is the key to happiness, and to having any hope of truly getting where you want to go.

At the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, our approaches of Dynamic Eating Psychology and Mind Body Nutrition encourage you to see your body in a holistic way, helping you to get out of the rut of yo-yo dieting. Once you can let go of these old habits that just don’t work, you can enter into a new realm of seeing yourself as more than just a body, but as someone worthy of love at any weight.

I hope this was helpful.


Emily Rosen

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About The Author
Emily Rosen

Emily Rosen is the Director of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, where she oversees business development strategies, student affairs, marketing and public relations in addition to her role as Senior Teacher. With an extensive and varied background in nutritional science, counseling, natural foods, the culinary arts, conscious sex education, mind body practices, business management and marketing, Emily brings a unique skill-set to her role at the Institute. She has also been a long-term director and administrator for Weight Loss Camps and Programs serving teens and adults and has held the position of Executive Chef at various retreat centers. Her passion for health and transformation has provided her the opportunity to teach, counsel, manage, and be at the forefront of the new wave of professionals who are changing the way we understand the science and psychology of eating and sexuality. Emily is also co -founder of the Institute for Conscious Sexuality and Relationship.